Coming and Going: Exploring the Pleasure of Vacation Sex
Wake up, coffee, work, lunch, work, oh god what to make for dinner, clean, sleep, wake up, coffee, work... Is...
Five reasons why you too should build a sex room!
Have you been watching my new favorite Netflix Series, How to Build a Sex Room, hosted by the fabulous English born...
Go on a Hot Date… With Yourself!
This month, I'm spending a bit of time on the beach enjoying a solo vacation but also kinda missing my...
How to Cope in a Post-Roe World: Action & Passion
I stand with V (formerly Eve Ensler) and reject the Supreme Court decision overturning Roe. Why? For starters, the Supreme Court...
I’m coming out as a sex worker
[caption id="attachment_8514" align="aligncenter" width="300"] My sex worker days[/caption] Having just watched Good Luck to You Leo Grande, an excellent film with Emma...
Should I Give Bi a Try?
Dear Xanet, I'm going through a bit of a sex-life slump. Lately I seem to be attracting only very avoidant...
How to Celebrate Pride Month? Heal Shame and Feel Proud
June is national Pride Month, a time when we celebrate Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans, and Queer folks. Why June?...
Come With Me and Escape Into Love
If you're like me, the last few weeks have left you feeling drained and wanting to put your phone in...
Swinging (in the Trees!)
When is the last time you took your erotic adventures out-of-doors? For many of us, it has been far...
Does “You Do You” Really Work In Relationship?
Recently a friend went out with a man, and on their date, my friend expressed some past experience with someone...