Couples

​SEX COACHING FOR COUPLES

  • Are you a couple who is struggling in the bedroom?
  • Are you lacking intimacy, passion, or sex in the relationship?
  • Have you become roommates rather than lovemates?

I know this story all too well. I was in a sexless marriage for over two decades. It happened gradually, over a period of time. First, we stopped having sex. Then we stopped cuddling, kissing, and eventually found ourselves sleeping in separate beds..for more than 10 years. I couldn’t save my marriage, but I can definitely help you save yours!

It’s the reason that I decided to become a sex and intimacy coach. I know now what I didn’t know then. You don’t have to live in a sexless marriage. I have helped hundreds of couples deepen their intimacy and re-ignite their love life.

“Xanet has been an incredible discovery for me and my husband and truly helped us to heal our intimacy and sex life. She is extremely knowledgeable, is able to pinpoint the issue and dive into it fearlessly, and thoughtfully, at a very deep level. A game changer for intimacy and personal growth!”~ MB

​FROM SEXLESS TO SEXY: SIX MONTHS TO BEDROOM BLISS

You and your partner will be excellent candidates for this program if you are:

  • Committed to deepening your intimacy and connection
  • Understand the value of creating a loving relationship and a healthy sex life
  • Open to exploring your sexuality with curiosity and compassion
  • Willing to commit the time, energy, and financial resources necessary to get your love life back on track.

Relationships that are impacted by one or both partners having experienced sexual abuse and trauma, or sexual dysfunction, including painful intercourse, will also greatly benefit from this program. 

How the Program Works:

Every couple has their own set of unique issues and I will craft a specific program for you after we complete the initial assessment.  

While your program will be individualized, there are four cornerstones in all my coaching programs: 

  1. Deepen Connection and Intimacy
  2. ​Make Sex Pressure Free and Fun
  3. Embody Your Sexuality
  4. ​Create a Powerful Sexual Dynamic

IN THEIR OWN WORDS

“My husband and I took Xanet’s Passionate Intimacy Workshop last December and we were both very invigorated by it. We signed up for sex coaching sessions and we really enjoyed our experience. Xanet is a very present and engaging coach. As a couples MFT therapist myself, I know the importance of not favoring sides and Xanet did this so well. Her intuition and experience really helped us to unpack and experiment in a creative yet safe way.”
– C.O. Berkeley

Xanet is a great resource for couples who want to improve their sex life. I invited her to give a talk on sexuality to marriage counselors at The Couples Center. Xanet did an excellent job – she was engaging, knowledgeable and warm. She gave us practical information and also led some experiential exercises (clothes on…). She is genuine, trustworthy, easy to connect to and passionate about her work.
– Gal Sazelsky, Couples Center

“My fiance’ and I sought out Xanet’s services to give us new tools to enhance our level of connection. During our first session, we learned a process to support our ability to let go of the busyness in our minds from our very full lives and reconnect to our love for each other in a very special way. –”
S.L., East Bay

INTENSIVES FOR COUPLES ​

​There is no better way to recharge your relationship and sex life than spending a weekend in a coaching intensive. Over the course of the intensive we will work on:

  • Strengthening intimacy and connection
  • Learn how to meet and satisfy each others needs and desires

​In a safe and supportive setting, you can explore and be coached on couples play including:

  • Sensual massag
  • Fantasy play
  • Light kink
An amazing and powerful journey of self-discovery and healing!

“Xanet has been an incredible discovery for me and my husband and truly helped us to heal our intimacy and sex life. Highlights of her approach: -she is extremely knowledgeable -she has a very experiential, body centered approach and is very resourceful -she is able to pinpoint the issue and dive into it fearlessly, and thoughtfully at a very deep level -she was very committed to us both as individuals and couple: a true and trustworthy coach A game changer for intimacy and personal growth!”~ MB

“Xanet has been an incredible discovery for me and my husband and truly helped us to heal our intimacy and sex life. She is extremely knowledgeable, is able to pinpoint the issue and dive into it fearlessly, and thoughtfully, at a very deep level. A game changer for intimacy and personal growth!”~ MB

FROM SEXLESS TO SEXY

6 MONTHS TO BEDROOM BLISS

Are you a couple who is struggling in the bedroom?

Are you lacking intimacy, passion, or sex in the relationship?

Have you become roommates rather than lovemates?

I know this story all too well. I was in a sexless marriage for over two decades. It happened gradually, over a period of time.

First, we stopped having sex.

Then we stopped cuddling, kissing, and eventually found ourselves sleeping in separate beds..for more than 10 years.

​I couldn’t save my marriage, but I can definitely help you save yours!

It’s the reason that I decided to become a sex and intimacy coach. I know now what I didn’t know then.

You don’t have to live in a sexless marriage. I have helped hundreds of couples deepen their intimacy and re-ignite their love life.

YOU ARE ABOUT TO GET ACCESS