Hi, I’m Xanet and I lived in a sexless marriage for more than two decades so I truly understand the struggles that you are experiencing.

Feeling closed down with your partner and around your sexuality can be very isolating and frustrating.
You might even feel like you are broken, especially if sex is painful or you are a survivor of sexual abuse or trauma.

But I promise you that you are not broken! Not only can you heal your relationship with sex, you can also rediscover the joy and pleasure of sex and deepen your intimacy and relationship.

I work with couples in sexless relationships and women of all ages who have struggles around sex:

  • Women who were date raped or experienced abuse
  • New moms who were traumatized during childbirth
  • Woman who have never experienced an orgasm
  • Menopausal women struggling with low desire
  • Women wanting to explore and discover their sexuality

​Take the first step towards having a healthy and fulfilling sex life by reaching out to me so that we can discuss your unique situation.

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Xanet is a frequent contributor to numerous magazines, journals, podcasts, and radio shows. Following are a select few of her past appearances. Please contact her to request her appearance or expertise.

A DEEPER AND FULLER EXPERIENCE OF TOUCH AND SENSUALITY

Xanet set a safe space for exploring a deeper and fuller experience of touch, breath, and sensuality. It was very gentle and good for people starting this exploration. Thanks Xanet!  ​​Jenny B – Berkeley, CA

FULFILLING SEX AND INTIMACY CALLS…WILL YOU ANSWER? ​

Xanet offers individual and couples coaching in-person in Ashville, North Carolina and virtually! Plus she has training programs for all.

COACHING FOR WOMEN

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COACHING FOR COUPLES

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WORKSHOPS & TRAININGS

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