Why Women Stop Wanting Sex — And the Proven Ways to Bring Passion Back
When Passion Fades A worry I hear again and again is: “I just don’t want sex anymore.” For many women,...
Obligation Sex vs. Passionate Sex: How to Reignite Desire Without Guilt
When Intimacy Becomes a Duty A woman once shared with me, her voice trembling: “I say yes even when my...
The Real Couples Intimacy Retreat Experience: What Actually Happens
When Lisa and her partner arrived at their first retreat, they were on the edge of breaking up.They had drifted...
Why Emotional Safety is the Hidden Key to Passionate Intimacy
Emotional safety is the hidden key to passionate intimacy. Why? Let’s start with a question I often ask couples who...
The 3 Stages of Sexual Connection: How to Deepen Emotional Intimacy with Your Partner
Building Emotional Connection with Your Partner How do we go from the heat of early attraction to the deeper, soul-stirring...
The Hidden Pain: The Real Challenges of Being in a Sexless Marriage
The Challenges of Being in a Sexless Marriage: What No One Talks About The challenges of being in a sexless...
The Sexual Renaissance of Gen X Women: A Personal Reflection
In a recent New York Times article about Gen X women, "Sexuality and the Gen X Woman", the complexities of...
RAWR! Using Animal Instincts to Heighten Sexual Polarity
Dear Xanet, In the past I've always been a very sexual being. I love sex, usually crave sex, and...
Medical Approaches to Vaginal Health: Part 1
Recently a client posed a question about the effectiveness of various medical treatments for vaginal health. I'll cover some of...
Santa Baby’s Sexy Gift Guide
Click here to sing along with me (with a few sexy edits!) and along the way, check out all the...