What’s the Secret to Successful Sex in a LTR?
I'll admit it, there are times when the thought of Valentine's Day brought me angst in the past....
Are You Seeking Chemistry… Or Explosions?
One big myth about relationships that I'd love to dispel is the notion that it's necessary to feel "chemistry" with...
How an Intimacy Retreat Can Save Your Marriage
Dear Xanet, My husband and I have been married for almost two decades, and I feel so emotionally disconnected from...
New Year’s Quest: Find More Joy!
This time of year, everyone makes their New Year's resolutions. Lose weight, get fit, blah blah blah. What about something...
Ho Ho Hold Up On Dating Apps For a Minute
Are you on dating apps and feeling frustrated and burned out? Or should I shorten that to: "Are you on...
Six Steps to Heal Your Inner Child
As a sex coach, I see a lot of folks who are struggling with sexual satisfaction. And something that occurs...
Gift Ideas to Titillate Your Lover This Holiday Season
Whatever flavor of holiday you celebrate, tis the season for sexy gifts. Here are some I'm a fan of, and...
Four Steps to Help You “Do The Work”
Recently I was experiencing a strange physical symptom. My head was itching! Not all the time, just when I wasn't...
Am I Too Old To Learn New Tricks?
A recent article in The Guardian speaks to our fears of passing our prime, of the slow, steady decline that...
What’s Ethical Non Monogamy, & Why Should You Try It?
"How do you know if your friend is polyamorous?" "Oh, trust me, you'll know, they never stop talking about it."...