You are in a room full of people who are writhing on the floor in an orgasmic state and they all have their clothes on! Sound like Great Sex? Intriguing…read on… This actually happened at a recent Energetic Sex workshop that I took with renown sex geek and master teacher Reid Mihalko. While I have had my share of energetic orgasms, Reid’s class took energetic sex to a whole new level for me. In traditional Tantra, one accesses a higher state of energetic consciousness through breath work. In fact, as I talked about previously, you can teach yourself to breathe your way to an orgasm.
But there are other ways to access energy that does not involve breath work which may work better for some people. Imagine that there are two tuning forks in the room. It is a scientific fact that when you strike one tuning fork the other tuning fork vibrates at the same frequency. Applying this same principle to the energy field of human bodies, it is possible to tune into someone else’s energy body and find their note, that is the frequency at which they vibrate. You can then increase the vibrations by turning up your own energy dial. Adding touch will increase pleasure and sensation.
Face your partner and rub your hands together vigorously for about one minute until you can feel lots of heat in the palms of your hands. Then open your hands and place them across from your partner’s hands but not touching, approximately 6 inches away. Slowly move your hands away from each other and then back together. Notice if you feel anything between your hands or any type of resistance when you pull them apart and push them back together. Any type of sensations that you feel between your hands is energy. You can also try this with your eyes closed and see if you can “energetically” feel each other’s hands.
Rub your hands together and place them six inches away from the center of your partner’s chest (known in Tantra as the heart chakra). With your eyes closed, see if you can energetically sense their body and feel their vibration. Once you have found it, start moving your hands to different parts of their body, including their cock or yoni. Turn up your own energy and see what kind of effect it has on your partner. If you have never played with energy before, this may take a bit of practice. But don’t be discouraged because you didn’t learn to drive a car in one day either!