Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Love Life

A Group Program for Women at All Stages of Life

With Best Selling Author Xanet Pailet

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

“I’m not that interested in sex anymore”
“I feel obligated to have sex even though I don’t really enjoy it”
“I can’t remember the last time I felt sexy or desirable”
“I long for the good old days when sex was fun, passionate and spontaneous”

I hear these complaints from women of all ages–from newlyweds and new moms, to peri and post menopausal women.

This is the number one issue that women face around our sexuality. You’re constantly asking yourself, “What is wrong with me?”, “Will I ever feel desire again?” You may even be scared that this might end a long term relationship But here’s the truth: Female desire is multi-faceted and complex, just like you. As a young girl you were pre-programmed to say “No” to sex which makes it so easy now to put your foot on the brakes:

  • Discomfort with your changing body
  • Not knowing or being able to ask for what you want
  • Not knowing or being able to ask for what you want
While there is no “magic pill” you can take, there is a powerful way for you to rekindle your desire and get your love life back on track.
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Healing starts with ridding yourself of shame and limiting beliefs.

Learn what you truly desire and embracing it fully

  • Are you ready to feel more sexually alive and confident?
  • Do you want to rid yourself of the baggage around sex once and for all?
  • Want to learn how to reclaim your desire?
Well then my love you are so in the right place!

It’s time for you to put your needs first

Take action, move forward, and discover that beautiful, confident, sexy woman who is waiting to emerge.




Embrace all of you and learn how to truly love yourself

Rid yourself of limiting beliefs and shame around your sexuality

Deeply connect with and listen to your body

Learn new tools and skills to ignite your love life

Using Four Core Principles, this program will help you break through blocks that are holding you back from reclaiming your desire and finding the intimacy, connection and passion that you want.
  • Presence in mind and body
  • Power to address issues around sex and intimacy
  • Permission to embrace your desires and ask for what you want
  • Pleasure in your body and in your life


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9 Live and Recorded Group Mentorship Calls

Instructional Video

Weekly Instructional Videos with Practices and Handouts


30 Days to Orgasmic Bliss E-Book

Fb Group

​A Private Facebook Group Built For The Women In This Program


Unlimited E-mail Support Throughout The 9 Weeks


  • 14 Day Body Awakening Program
  • Relationship and Intimacy Blueprint

About Xanet Pailet

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Xanet Pailet is a former health care lawyer turned sex and intimacy educator, coach and best selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. 

She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. 

She is particularly passionate about working with women who are sexually disconnected. She helps them reclaim their pleasure and transform their relationships and their lives.

Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, a certified Sexological Body Worker with the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and a certified Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner. 

She is also a certified Sky Dancing Tantra Teacher and a Trauma practitioner. She serves on the faculty of the Institute for Ecstatic Living, 1440 Multiversity and the Somatica Institute.

program modules:

Week 1

You are not broken:

It is completely normal for your sexual desire to ebb and flow and even disappear, especially if you are in a long term relationship. In this module we will examine the reasons why women lose their desire for sex and how hormones play a role in your sexual desire. Since this is a trauma informed program, you will also learn some basic trauma concepts and ways to find support and resources.

Week 2​

Understanding Your Sexual Blueprint:

Examine the messages that you received around sex as a young girl or teenager, as well as your early sexual experiences. What impact have they had on your adult relationship with sex? In what ways are they impacting your desire for sex?

Week 3​

Banishing Your Shame:

Shame is the nastiest five letter word in the universe and shows up in all aspects of our life. But it does not have to control your actions or continue to have power over your sex life. In this module you will learn some very simple but powerful techniques that will help you banish your shame.​

Week 4​

The Emotions of Desire:

As a woman, you need to feel connected with your emotions in order to experience desire. If you are walking around feeling numb, angry, or resentful, it will hinder you ability to experience connected sex. In this module you will learn some tools to process negative emotions in your body and learn how to connect with the emotions that will ignite your desire.​

Week 5​

Anxious, Avoidant or Secure?

Your attachment style has a direct impact on your relationship with intimacy. Understanding your attachment style, as well as a partner’s, will help you navigate conflicts in intimate relationships, sow the seeds for rekindling desire, and build a stronger connection with a partner.​

Week 6

Loving Yourself and Your Body, Warts and All:

Loving and accepting your-ever changing body is central to reigniting your desire. You need to feel and believe that you are desirable and sexy. In this module, you will meet your new best friend and challenge the negative social conditioning you’re received about your body.​

Week 7

Awakening Your Senses:

Body awareness and awakening your body is the key to re-connecting with your desire, since arousal starts inside. This concept is central to reigniting your sex life and most women live in their heads and not in their bodies. In this module you will learn a series of gentle but powerful practices to help you awaken your body, connect with all five of your senses, and bring more sensuality into your life.​

Week 8

Connect with Your Root:

Your pelvic bowl (Root) is the center of your power and creativity but most women are disconnected from their Root. In this module you gently start to come into communication with your root power through body awareness and a meditation that will transform your relationship with your pelvic bowl. You will be amazed at what your Root has to say about helping you reconnect with your desire!​

Week 9

Your Erotic Nature:

Desire flows from eroticism, at least as much as it might flow from love. In this module you will learn about your erotic nature through exploring your fantasies, desires and the emotions that you want out of sex. Understanding your erotic nature, and then incorporating that into your lovemaking, will completely transform your sex life.



​The question you might be asking yourself right now is how much is this going to cost?

The better question to ask yourself is can you afford not to do this?

How much is it worth to you to rid yourself of your baggage around sex and intimacy, and have the intimate, passionate relationships that you want? 

It’s true. Personal development work takes a level of commitment; your time and your money.

But guess what? 


​The Reclaim Your Desire On Line Group Program follows the same basic program structure that I use with my private clients who pay between $3600 and $7500 for my individual coaching program. 

The information, skills and tools that I share with you are the exact same ones that I use with my private clients. Group coaching is not only more cost effective but it is one of the most powerful methods to change beliefs and behaviors. 
This program plus the additional bonuses is worth over $4300!

And because I want as many of you as possible to have access to this transformational program, I am also offering a payment plan. 

I’m so sure that this program will change your sex life that I’m giving you a 14 day 100% guarantee or I will gladly return your investment.

And because I want as many of you as possible to have access to this transformational program, I am also offering a payment plan.

I’m so sure that this program will change your sex life that I’m giving you a 14 day 100% guarantee or I will gladly return your investment.

What You Will Receive:


  1. 9 Self Study Instructional videos  

  2. Worksheets, Self-Assessments and Audio exercises  

  3. 9 “You’re Not Alone” Group Coaching Calls (90 minutes) 

  • 14 Day Body Awakening Adventure 




  • 9 Self Study Instructional videos  
  • Worksheets, Self-Assessments and Audio exercises  
  • 9 “You’re Not Alone” Group Coaching Calls (90 minutes) 
  • 14 Day Body Awakening Adventure 
  • 3 Individual Coaching Calls Tailored to Your Unique Challenges
  •  Relationship and Intimacy Blueprint Assessment Session 
  • 2 SOS Laser Coaching Sessions 
  • Unlimited Email Support 
  • Bonus Book:  30 Days to Orgasmic Bliss
  • Bonus Video:  Pleasuring Your Man


Go ahead and give yourself this gift.

I promise you will not regret it!

Are You a Good Candidate for this Program?

If you can answer “Yes” to any of these questions, I encourage you to apply and set up a GET TO KNOW ME CALL.

  • Are you feeling disconnected from your body or your sexuality?
  • Are you frustrated with your lack of desire?
  • Are you ready to make a change in your relationship with your body and/or a partner?
  • Is this important enough for you to allocate sufficient time and resources to participate fully in the program?