The holiday season is now upon us and as usual, it comes with the madness of trying to find the perfect gift for your special someone. This wonderful time of year is also a stressful one, and even though Hallmark would have us believe it is a time for enchantment, the stress can really take a toll on our lives.
Stress is one of the greatest roadblocks to intimacy so I’m doing everything in my power to help you combat it. I know I feel it mounting as the pressure of gift-giving, holiday arrangements and family dynamics start to consume my world.
So while you may be putting sex on the back burner through the holidays, don’t forget you have 11 other months in the year to make your relationship merry, warm and enchanting. Here is a gift list to help you put hotter sex and more intimacy on the top of your list, whether you have been naughty or nice!
Dancing is a wonderful warm-up for the events later in the night. Swaying to the music with your partner and moving to the rhythm get your blood flowing. This couple’s toy syncs to the music you are playing via Bluetooth, it will make your go-to playlist your all-time favorite. Syncing to the beat, mid-range, bass or treble of the songs being played is a great toy for getting you in the mood!
Switching up positions during sex is always fun, but sometimes it can be clunky. Grabbing pillows, throwing pillows away. The Liberator Wedge is built to make changing positions a breeze so you don’t have to think about how. It can change a classic missionary into a position that can not only stimulate the g-spot or p-spot but can make doggy-style, anal or oral sex more comfortable.
For the kinky techies in your life, the We-Vibe Rave is the perfect gift this season. The design allows for direct g-spot stimulation with a range of vibrations and intensities. But that isn’t even the best part! It can be controlled via the We Connect app, so your partner can take control of your pleasure from anywhere in the world!
This gadget is on this list because of muscle stimulation it creates for the pelvic floor. It helps strengthen the muscles so that women can have stronger and more frequent orgasms. All it takes is regular use to tighten up the vaginal walls and pelvic muscle. This gives the toy the dual purpose of pleasure and functionality!
Usually, when you see fabric in a box you think, ‘oh great’. But fresh satin or silk sheets are not like your everyday pair of socks! They will transform your bed. You and your partner will want to stay there all the time. The sensory reaction of touching soft, smooth material plus the ease it allows for movement will be an instant sex heightener.
Lust Have Recipes: Aphrodisiac Cookbook: Ingredients for Stimulation
As the saying goes “Food is a way to everyone’s heart’ and truly it is a vital part of what brings us together, especially during the holidays. That is why I recommend this cookbook filled with mouth-watering, lustful recipes that are built around aphrodisiacs. It is a perfect way to set up steaming date nights for months to come! Not to mention the great quality time you will get from cooking your way through it.
Position of the Day: Sex Every Day in Every Way
Gamification is a great way to spice things up. There are 52 cards, so you pull one a week or you can use them to play poker. Your call, but either way these cards make your playing time so much more tantalizing!
These bombs are made of all natural, organic, non-GMO and cruelty-free ingredients. This makes a relaxing bath so much better, knowing you are being good to the world and your body. Spending some time in a bath is a great way to get yourself and your partner relaxed before going to bed!
UVee Premium Sanitizing and Charging Storage System.
You will never again have to worry about whether the toy you pulled out of the drawer is clean! The UVee is the best way to keep all your sex toys clean and sanitary. The best part of this gadget is it not only sanitizes your toys but it also charges them so your toys are ready to go whenever you are.
Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure
Living An Orgasmic Life is the perfect gift for women in your life, be they your partner, your sister or your best friend. We've even heard that some daughters are buying it for their Moms. Now that's what we call a gift from the heart. Women who can’t surrender into pleasure, can’t sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book.
The Fantasy Box
It’s date night in a box! You can select from a few different plans to fit your relationship and your budget. The fantasy box helps couples explore all different types of fantasies, with props, scene setups, and a detailed guide! Try it out for a month and see if it helps ignite your love life.
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