Recently I've had a lot of new clients, both individuals and couples, who want my help on deciding whether or not they should leave their marriage. While the initial reason they contacted a sex and intimacy coach was because they are having problems in their sexual life, problems with sex are often a symptom of underlying relationship issues.
Whether or not to separate is a very challenging and emotional decision, usually rife with fear and anger, and each situation is so unique. The baggage that each party brings, the existence of children, family obligations, financial concerns..the list can go on and on for pages.
But in my opinion, there are some pretty clear signs that separation is likely the healthiest choice: