Today we dive into your sexual blueprint.
What is it? How can you identify your sexual blueprint?
Sexual blueprints have a big impact on what our relationship with sex is as an adult. It affects how we interact with partners. It dictates how we express our fears, insecurities, and turn-ons.
Let me give you a brief excerpt from my book, Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure.
"The sexual blueprint is similar to an architectural blueprint that shows all the details of the plumbing, electricity, drywall, windows, and doors that make up a building.
Your sexual blueprint is comprised of all of the early life experiences that make up your sense of yourself as a sexual being. I call it a blueprint to emphasize the impact of these early experiences that govern your relationship with your own sexuality, as well as how you relate to members of the opposite or the same sex."
Here’s the deal, kissing is really important to so many people, myself included. It can be more intimate than having sex. In both my personal experience and working with couples, so many people don't get it right.
A lot of couples who come to see me are struggling around intimacy and sex. The conversation often goes like this:
Me: How and when do you guys kiss?
Couple: Well, yeah, a kiss on the cheek or a little kiss on the lip. Maybe before we go to work, say hello or goodbye. But even when we are having sex, we are not kissing.
This is usually an indication that there is a serious intimacy problem in the relationship because kissing is such an intimate and passionate act.
Deep passionate kissing is also one of the three ingredients for women to have orgasms during sex.