Here comes a rant. It's 2018 and I can't believe that I am still having to defend the existence of the female G spot! I was reading a great article in the New York Times about teens and online porn. In it, they describe a Porn Literacy pilot program created by a group of sexuality educators from Boston University's School of Public Health. I almost fell off my chair when I read this quote from a sex educator explaining female sexual anatomy to the students.
"“This is the clitoris. “This is where women get most pleasure. Most women do not have a G spot. If you want to know how to give a woman pleasure, it’s the clitoris.”
While I truly appreciate any attempt in a sex education class to talk about female pleasure, the fact that this myth continues to circulate among those who for sure should know better is mind boggling.
Let me try to clarify this for you once and for all. Every woman on this planet has a G Spot, also know as the urethral sponge. It is always located inside the vagina on the frontal wall underneath the pubic bone. The G spot is spongy tissue with some ridges in it. You can locate it on yourself by placing a finger inside of the vagina and curling it up towards the pubic bone.
Here's a good illustration with some fun facts.
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